I know it is hard to reassure you, at the same time im glad that you actually cared.
I understand how you feel but i wont try to tell you that i will never hang out with him again because i know that will be a lie.

He is never my kind of guy and if i have feelings for him, we would have been together a long time ago.

I feel that it is very contradicting.. You said he is despicable and has hidden agenda.. and he said it is best that i should find other guys out there rather than to quarrel with you all the time..

I think that the both of you do have a point but i think i can pretty much come up with a decision myself..